He is diagnosed with developmental apraxia. Meaning he has very weak oral movement. She does suspect he has ADHD as well however he really is to young to diagnose that. She does recommend special ed classes for the time being but chances are he won't need them later in life.
We mentioned to her that this has affected friendships due to the fact he hits pretty much everyone. She said that is common and we are doing what we can. That will improve with time. In the meantime we have more important things to work on with him, such as sleeping better, eating properly, chewing, talking. The reason why he hits is because he can not vocalize what he really wants to so he hits because that's how he can tell us he's mad or frustrated and he does it when he's nervous or feels threatened. I know this sounds like an excuse however we need to make sure we "treat" Owen in the proper order.
Owen has been going to Holland Rehab for Occupational therapy to help with his oral movements along with other areas that need development. However that is on hold currently until our insurance says he can continue.
Again God has answered many of our prayers! We are truly blessed. We have two great boys!
We still appreciate any and all prayers, we do have a lot of changes that need to take place to help accommodate our family.
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Would you be interested in contacting another mom of a child with apraxia? My girlfriend in KY has a daughter who struggles with it.
Hang in there, Lori. And don't, DON'T, no-don't-never-DON"T, let unthinking, uncaring people who don't know you or Owen make you feel bad/uncomfortable about his behavior! Sean had a meltdown going through the store on Saturday afternoon, and I heard someone mumbling a snide remark about his behavior as we passed. You know the hills he (and you) has to climb. Remember that they don't have to live with him and are clueless as to how far he has come.
Hugs to you.
glad to see you're writing again! Thanks for the update on Owen. We'll keep your family in our prayers as you wait on insurance for therapy and balance two active boys!
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